This last week I was married and I realized it takes a lot of work. Even though it is your big day it seems like you are planning for everyone else somewhat. My wedding went great. I think that when we were planning the wedding we didn’t focus enough on just what we wanted but everyone elses needs and wants as well. Along the way we had to keep remind each other it was our day and we can do what we want. I saw roles in each family and how they thought a ceremony and a wedding should look like. How the bride should look. I saw how hard it was for some family;s to get along and some planning was just made for them when really they should have been able to get along with each other. I saw how men and women are separated such as by the garter toss and the bouquet toss. How women so badly want to catch it because they believe they will be the next one to get married and how the garter toss is in what I believe just a sexy joke. I also think It is ridiculous how the brides parents are expected to plan and pay for everything yet other people can complain. Weddings are fun but are somewhat i believe the word is prejudice in some ways towards men and women. I believe that this blog is related to womens studies because it shows how women are still supposed to do almost everything in a wedding and some people firmly believe that. I am so happy my husband is not that way.
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